The Short Answer
Start by asking your parents, siblings, and grandparents about major diagnoses (heart disease, stroke, cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol), the age they were diagnosed, and how the disease was treated. Write it down in a simple chart or use the free CDC Family Health History Tool online. Aim to collect information on at least three generations (grandparents, parents, siblings, children) [9].
The CDC and NIH recommend collecting a three-generation pedigree: your grandparents' health, your parents' health, your siblings' health, and your own health. For each person, note the diagnosis (e.g., 'heart attack at age 52'), the treatment (e.g., 'stent placed'), and the outcome (e.g., 'recovered well' or 'died at age 65'). Include causes of death if known. This structured approach helps your doctor spot patterns—for example, if three relatives had heart attacks in their 50s, your risk is much higher than if one relative had a stroke at age 80 [9].
Ask specific questions: 'Did you ever have high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes, heart disease, stroke, cancer, or kidney disease?' 'How old were you when you were diagnosed?' 'Are you still alive, and if not, how old were you when you died and what was the cause?' 'What medications did you take?' Relatives may not remember exact ages, but 'sometime in their 50s' or 'before retirement' is helpful. If a relative is uncomfortable sharing, respect that—but explain that you are trying to understand your own health risks.
Use the free CDC Family Health History Tool (available online) or a simple spreadsheet. Many health systems now have digital tools in their patient portals where you can enter family history directly. Once you have gathered the information, bring it to your doctor. Your doctor will use it to calculate your 10-year cardiovascular risk (using tools like the Framingham Risk Score or ASCVD Risk Estimator) and decide whether you need genetic testing, early screening, or preventive medications [9].
Try This Today
Start with your parents this week. Send them a text or call: 'I'm trying to understand my health risks. Can you tell me about any heart disease, stroke, cancer, or diabetes in our family?' Most parents are happy to share. If they do not know, ask them to ask their parents. You may need to make 2–3 calls, but the information is worth its weight in gold.